-Find help: there are great books and resources online, one of the things that truly helped me the most was joining a miscarriage group on BabyCenter, that group lead to another great private group I now belong to. There, I met the most wonderful online friends and it is my safety zone- a place where I can talk about how I feel, my fears about conceiving again and know that this girls have been through the same.
-He also lost his baby: this is hard, sometimes we think we are the only ones feeling sad about the loss, your significant other is going thru the same, you may not see it but he is devastated, he is just dealing with it in his own way. It took my husband months to express to me how he really felt, give him sometime!
What to do if it’s someone else
-Food: when a person goes thru a miscarriage the last thing they want to do is cook, bring a meal over.
-It was just a miscarriage.
-Well, at least you weren’t that far along
-You can have another one.
-You lost it early so it’s not that big of deal.
-Now you have angel looking after you.
-Its for the best
-You’re young, you’ll get over it.
Recipes, please!! (& great family ideas too.)
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