If you’ve been reading this awesome blog for a while, then you’ve read many references made to “Dan”, Mariel’s husband. Well, I’m his slightly older (and much less hairy) sister, Rebecca, here to share my best tips for starting a book club that’s fun and successful.
I live across the country from my brother, sister-in-law, and the rest of my fabulous family, with my husband and our two sweet little girls. When we first moved away, I was determined to find some great friends who could help fill the void of having no family close by. I quickly realized that the girls at church who I targeted as “potential” friends all belonged to a book club. I’d never been in a book club, but I was intrigued. I love reading, I love learning and I wanted to make friends … so I got myself invited to the club. That was more than six years ago, and I’m proud to say I’ve been a part of a book club ever since. I currently facilitate a book club that is going on its third anniversary. I’ve learned a few tips and tricks along the way that may come in handy if you’re contemplating starting or joining a book club.
10 Tips for Starting a Book Club in 2022
1. Rotate locations
I’ve found that having the members of a book club rotate hosting works best. This gives you a chance to really get to know people in their own home, and people feel more invested when they’re asked to host on occasion. The book clubs I’ve enjoyed the most aren’t just about the books. I love growing closer as a group, learning from each other, and getting a little break from daily life. Changing book club locations is a great way to help that happen and to keep things fun and new!
2. Have the host chose the book
This takes the pressure off of you having to choose all the books. Plus, it provides a lot of variety. The ages of the women in our book club range from early 30s to mid-80s, so the books we’ve read and the discussion we’ve had have been very diverse. If anyone needs some book club book ideas, have them check out this list… favorite assigned books from ACTUAL book club members!
3. Set standards
All members of the book club need to discuss what “material” is acceptable for a book to contain. I give more leeway to a biography that contains language that is true to the story than I would to a novel that carelessly throws in profanity without any purpose for it. It’s also a good idea to read or skim through the book before suggesting it, but that isn’t a requirement. Even reading lots of reviews on the book helps! Readers will often give you insight on any potentially offensive material, which will help you in deciding what to choose.
4. Encourage variety
Many book clubs have a theme, but I’ve found that leaving it open provides a lot of variety and helps push me out of my reading comfort zone. We’ve read everything from Jane Austen to C.S. Lewis to Glenn Beck – and everything in between. There are so many places online to look for book ideas that I won’t even try to list them here (but of course, check out the link shared in tip #2.) I’d also suggest asking your local library for reading lists, asking friends for suggestions or just keep a running list of books as you read about them in magazines, see them at the book store, etc. Here are some of my personal favorite book club picks from my years in the club.
5. Choose free or inexpensive books
I didn’t ever want someone to be precluded from joining our book club because they couldn’t afford to, or didn’t want to, buy a book each month. Before choosing a book, I ask the host to check local libraries to see how many copies are available. Or, we try to find books that can be purchased used on Amazon or other used book web sites for a few dollars. Another great resource for basically free books is BookMooch and Paperback Swap. Oftentimes, Kindle books are cheaper, which may be helpful for those with a tablet. Books on Amazon will have a Kindle option on the listing, if it’s available.
6. Be consistent with the date
We’ve chosen the second Thursday of every month for our book club. Consistency is key. We may not always know the exact date, but you know you can plan on book club each month at the same time. In three years, we’ve only ever missed two months – once in December (Christmas) and once in August (summer vacations).
7. Serve themed refreshments
This is a fun tradition that has made our book clubs really enjoyable and unique. The host tries to serve refreshments that are either mentioned in the book or are somehow connected to the theme of the book. We’ve had tea parties after reading “Pride and Prejudice” and devils food cake after reading “The Screwtape Letters.” Some books are easier and more obvious than others, but it’s always fun to see how the host gets creative.
If you can find a way to work in any of these favorite book club refreshments, the night will be a guaranteed hit: Avocado Feta Salsa with Homemade Parmesan Pita Chips (way easier than it sounds!), Chocolate Cherry Fruit Dip (serve with sliced green apples), Fried Avocado with Salsa Ranch (these will disappear SUPER fast, so have something else to serve too!!)
8. Have discussion questions ready
Many books will include discussion points at the end, and there are many web sites with questions you can print off and bring with you to book club. Our discussions inevitably branch off onto non-related topics, which is all part of the fun. However, there’s often a lull in the conversation, and having questions in mind helps get the topic back onto the book. Don’t be too strict though. After all, you’re there to socialize and get to know each other.
9. Distribute a six-month schedule
I’ve found that scheduling out six months in advance works really well. I have people pick which month they want to host, and then I follow up a couple of weeks later to get their book selection. This gives people plenty of time to obtain copies of upcoming books and to pass them around within the club. It also means I only have to do a schedule a couple of times a year. I do send out an email reminder about a week before each book club, and I include the schedule for upcoming books.
10. Keep a record of books read
This was a great tip from a friend who’d been in a book club for ten years and had a document listing all the books they’d read that could be sorted by title, author or date. I started a similar document three years ago, and it’s so fun to look back at what we’ve read. It makes me feel like I’ve accomplished something, and hopefully learned a lot in the process. It’s also helpful for new people joining the club so they don’t choose a duplicate or similar book.
I hope these tips inspire you to start and/or join a book club soon! Happy reading!
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